Guest post by Emily Sherr, my 20 year old daughter, who is at Durham University studying Education with History.
Like most people, I was shocked and appalled when I first saw and heard of the recent interview with Katie Hopkins on This Morning (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=edZjdgU0asM). She claimed that she would not let her children play with other children who had certain names, such as Tyler, Chardonnay, Brandon or children who were named after geographical locations (ironically, one of her own daughters is called India, but evidently that’s not a geographical location!!). This was because she said that a name was much more than just a name. Tyler was not just a boy in the class, he was a disruptive boy who turned up late, wearing untidy uniform and with his homework not finished. Obviously this is a huge generalisation as can be seen through individual personal experiences, as well as the wealth of influential and talented people with so called, ‘bad’ names who have contributed to sport, music, academia, science, charity, government and many other sectors.
This case, along with the current hype over the naming of the newborn Royal Baby Boy, (you can vote in our poll of what you think the baby will be called here), has got me thinking about the importance of a name, and whether a name is really just a name. Being only twenty and not having a child myself, the issue of naming a baby isn’t one I have personally had to deal with. However, it has come up in discussion with my friends over what names we would potentially like to call any future children. Similarly, I imagine that the majority of parents look into the meaning of their chosen name, or think about nick names or teasing that may result from the child’s name. Rarely is a name just a name.
Similarly, their are social, psychological and scientific studies that do link certain names with higher attainment and success. Names can reveal a lot about a person including their ethnicity or heritage. Research even claims that your name can effect what job you go in to with people choosing employment that sounds similar to their name (Lauras’ go into Law, Dennis’s go into Dentistry). Whether any of this is actually true or based around mere coincidence is questionable, but there does often seem to be a link.
At the end of every year I am set the task of going through the Musical Minis database and analysing the names of all children who have attended classes through the year (last years results can be seen here). I really enjoy this and find it very interesting analysing the most popular names and how this varies year on year and between different locations.
Thinking about it, names are incredibly important; most people have them all of their lives and evidently they can have huge implications on our achievements, love life and where we are going to live in the future, they can even decide who will be friends with us or not if Katie Hopkins has anything to do with it. Choosing a name can consequently be life changing for some. Whether it is right or wrong that a name plays such an important role, and whether or not we believe that personality, character and ability should have more of a decisive impact, I think I have come to the conclusion that it is an inescapable fact that a name is more than just a name.
Any thoughts and comments are very welcome. For more evidence on the implication of names see http://sciencefocus.com/feature/psychology/names.